Love Letter to the Hater

The term “hater” is not used here as a focal point to describe an envious person as seen within the popular social construct thrown around by youth and young adults alike. Instead, it is used in this letter to speak of a person who does not understand what love is.

What is love?

Is it a feeling? Is it simply an emotion? Is it an action?

Again I ask the reader, what is love?

Love is energy. It is a highly advanced, flowing energy that exists on a plane entirely outside of the ego.

If you are in ego, you are outside of love, and when you say, “I love you,” you can only mean the sentiment from the lower self - the one suppressed and moved by ego.

What do I mean?

I mean that when you say you “love” someone, you can only love them as much as that love is suitable and convenient for you. Once they do something you deem unsuitable or offensive beyond repair, you will simply not “love” them anymore, claiming to have “fallen out of love.” I posit that you never “loved” them in the first place in this case.

Love, when given, is never taken back due to any action or inaction of the person loved. True, real, pure love is eternal and just. This doesn’t mean you can trample on it and expect no consequences. No. This level of love is high, in another realm than ego, and brings with it greater rewards and consequences.

If I were to love you with this kind of love, your actions or lack thereof would not remove the love I have for you. Because my love is just, if you took an action that was detrimental to your well being or mine, I would have to take an equal or opposite action to counter this in order to provide balance and harmony once more. For example, if I were in a deep-seated friendship in which I showed love to an individual, and they completely betrayed our friendship, I would then have to distance myself from that person. This would be due to the incredible love that exists between us - love not only for them but for myself also.

You see, love is sacrificial, with limitation. That is, love will not sacrifice its intrinsic value, identity and essence of essential longevity.

Love is unselfish, therefore it will rid itself of anything that is selfish.

Love is order and structure, therefore it will rid itself of anything that brings chaos.

Love is alive, therefore it will rid itself of anything that is dead or dying.

Love is eternal, therefore it will rid itself of anything that is not.

Love … will rid itself of anything detrimental to its infinite survival.

In order for you to continue in real, true, and pure love, you must rid yourself of anything or anyone selling you the contrary, falsely so-called.

“But if anyone keeps Yahuah’s word, the love of Yahuah has been truly perfected in him. By this we know that we are in Yahuah:” 1 John 2:5

“We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love our brothers. The one who does not love remains in death.” 1 John 3:14