Love Letter to the User

A user is anyone who approaches another person with the intentions of extracting something from them. That something is anything that said approacher finds valuable. That could be the person’s time, money, body, advice, etc. A user does not intend to reciprocate, only receive, leaving the other person sucked dry of whatever it is that was extracted - ultimately their life energy. The user is a parasite, a real-life vampire of sorts, leeching and sucking. When the victim has been bled dry, the user will generally move on to another host.

If you find that any of the above pertains to you, you are a user.

If you desire healing, it will need to start from within.

“Whatsoever a man thinks in his heart, so he is.” Proverbs 23:7

Your heart is your mind, will and emotions. It is the source of your life. You would not have this incessant need to use others if you believed that within you, you already had all that is necessary. Therefore, the first place to start is with a transformed mind. The Holy Spirit through the Son of Yahuah is able to work within you this change. You simply need to ask and have a pure desire to change for the better.

Say the following, knowing that the Father hears us when we come to him with a sincere and contrite heart:

“Dear Heavenly Father, thank You that You love me unconditionally. Please forgive me for my dysfunctional ways, both toward myself and others. Please send me Your Holy Spirit to transform and renew my mind to do what is pleasing to You. Bind up the spirits of darkness and dysfunction in my life and set me free. I pray these things in Yahusha/Jesus name and by the power of the Holy Spirit, so be it. So let it be.”

Once you allow the Heavenly Father to grant you this prayer, you will watch your life change before your very eyes, starting, of course, with your mindset.

“But whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.” John 4:14

“Do not work for the food which perishes, but for the food which endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man will give to you, for on Him the Father, Yahuah, has set His seal.” John 6:27

Once the wellspring of life springs from within you and your food is enduring from the Kingdom of Heaven within, you will give with no forethought of receiving in return. You will have no desire to use others, knowing that LOVE is what you have become.

“Yahusha said to them, ‘My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me, and to finish His work.’” John 4:34

In the above verse, Mashiah is responding to His disciples who were concerned because He had not eaten in a very long time. However, His response is very telling. He was so consumed with showing them the Father - that is Truth and Love - that he felt no physical hunger. He was spiritually filled by doing the Heavenly Father’s work, which bled over to the physical realm where he felt no desire to eat. It shows you that the Word of Yahuah is your source of ALL things.

“For My flesh is food indeed, and My blood is drink indeed.” John 6:55

Eat the Son of Yahuah, yea, learn of Him, feast on Him. Consume the Word and live.

You will have life to the full, yearning indeed to share it with others, never having the desire to use them again.

Finally, to you I say, “The Spirit and the Bride say, ‘come.’”

Come to the Water of Life, you who thirst, and you’ll thirst no more.

“Come, everyone who thirsts, come to the waters; and he who has no money, come, buy and eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without price.” Isaiah 55:1

“Yahusha stood up and cried out, ‘If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me and drink.’” John 7:37b